Human Connections
My Road Goes Ever On
Interviewed by The Hollywood Times
Human Connections must put the human above the connection. Spiritual growth occurs in nurturing soil, where roots grow deep, offering goodness to others.
Once again, I have learned that being kind to others, offering my time and attention, opens doors and windows I would never have thought possible. Living in a small town, I don’t have the reach of writers who live in a metropolis. Though I also know, after growing up and working in big cities, that the illusion of being “connected” can be very discombobulating. Being alone in a crowd sort of reality.
So, when I do connect with someone, I make an effort to mean my words and not simply use others for my own ends. I wouldn’t want someone to do that to me. Human connections must put the human above the connection.
I connected with a Catholic writer, model, and actress on LinkedIn, Anne DeSantis, and we ended up chatting on the phone, discovering in the process that we had a lot in common. We are both about the same age, homeschooled our kids, and have similar life visions. Her schedule is busy. My life is full. It was hard to connect except here and there. But we both made the effort, though sometimes that meant we had to reschedule our chats three or four times.
We understood our limitations and just kept trying. I’ve introduced her to friends of mine online. She introduced me to friends of hers. Sometimes the connections work out. Sometimes things fizzle out. But that’s part of the process. Being open to what might happen. To the good that is possible.
She recently connected me to a journalist for The Hollywood Times. That led to an interview. Me? And The Hollywood Times? A very unlikely combination, indeed. But I have learned to deeply appreciate my writer-friend Anne, and our journalist friend Jules, and their heartfelt, enthusiastic love for great stories.
Life is an unfolding mystery that encourages beauty and goodness. I’ll never know what is around the bend or over the next rise. But open doors and windows call. Beckoning me forward.
Interview with The Hollywood Times
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A. K. Frailey is the author of 17 books, a teacher for 35 years, and a homeschooling mother of 8.
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Two great stories here, Ann — the one written by The Hollywood Times, and the one you wrote about your friendship with Anne DeSantis. I am always intrigued and blessed by your good-humored perseverance. Thanks for making the blogosphere a brighter place!
Thanks, John. I’m glad you enjoyed them.
In truth, I’m just plain stubborn—but I like to tell God I’m using “Holy Audacity.”
Have a blessed week:)